My grandma has been in the hospital for a while now with failing health. She is one tough lady battling with fluid in her lungs and legs, diabities, and now pnemonia. It’s been difficult on everyone seeing her suffer. My grandma has always been a tough independant woman, so I know that this is difficult on her, not only because of the illness, but also letting others take care of her.
My grandma is also the matriarch of our family, beloved, kind generous and the glue that keeps us all togeether. She really amazes me sometimes with her strong charecter and big heart.
Anyway, my cousin came up with the idea that all of us grand kids and great grand kids send words of encouragement and love to my grandma in sort of a one big letter. What an awesome idea! I wish I had thought of it.
I wrote back with my message this morning, and since then I’ve been thinking about it a lot. I can’t really think of any times specifically that I told my granda how important she is to me and what a differnce she has made in my life. I’ve done little things to let her know that I care, but I don’t know if I’ve ever said it.
That makes me sad.
I remember writing an essay in middle school or something about how my grandma is my role model. I cited reasons about how she likes to learn everything. She’s not afraid to take on anything. She’s 70 something and still mows her own lawn.
So it’s not really that I never thought it or shared it, but I haven’t shared it with her. And I should have. And I’m glad my cousin asked this of us, because I do want my grandma to know! I think that it is really important that we let those that we love know it. So I’m saying it!

My Grandma is the Best Grandma Ever!